One more thing!!!!

I neglected in my earlier post to thank some very very important people. It was not that long ago that I enlisted the prayers of friends and you have come through like gang busters. I have never felt such humility and honor in my life. And recently even more of you have joined in to keep me, my family, and a peculiarplace before God in your private prayer time. I know that without you and your prayers things would be different, and I would feel more like I felt when you were not on board, alone. I asked you to pray for my friends and you did! I asked you to pray for our finances and you did!

This post is for you. The internship, the house, the finances, the Favor, the relationships and ALL the other things that have come to my family and myself.

THANK YOU!!!!

I love you and none of this would be possible without you. We have only just begun and the journey is being written by God, I am just happy and excited to be on this ride with you. Continue to pray, and if there is anything, and i mean ANYTHING you are in need of where prayer is concerned, PLEASE DO NOT HESITATE TO EMAIL ME: info@whatispeculiar.com

Again, I, we love you!!!

WOW….

is all i can say in reference to just how ridiculous and mind blowing God is. for those of you who know or have spent time with me, “wow” is used when i am in shock, rendered inarticulate, or when i am excited beyond comprehension.

WOW! WOW! WOW! WOW! WOW! WOW! WOW! WOW!

OK here goes. The news I had been holding onto for some time now that well, I almost exploded at least twice… for real!

On tomorrow, Esther and I will pick up the keys to an amazing house that my family will be living in, for free! Yes I said it, RENT FREE! Did I mention we are moving to Dallas, GA? Yes we are moving… why? Because that is where this beautiful house is!!! That is why! Let me explain.

I am the new church planter intern for West Ridge Church!!!!!!! I don’t know if you truly grasp the depths of my excitement. I will work on staff there from August to May of next year. Learning, learning and learning some more, getting my hands dirty, observing staff meetings, participating in those meetings, working toward a better understanding of successful church structure, etc. I will also be attending West Ridge’s Church Planting School this fall as well. I am a nerd! So Jim Akins called, we went to see the house, my wife and i fell in love, and tomorrow we go and get the keys!!! For the duration of the intern, we have the house. I am so thankful to God and West Ridge. I am so pumped about being there that once again I could just explode!

I really want to extend a heartfelt thank you and all the appreciation I have in my body to the entire West Ridge Family, Lead Pastor Brian Bloye, Jim, and everyone else who has welcomed me and my family thus far!!!! I love you guys and cannot wait to both learn from and give out of my gifts, time, and money!

There is more exciting news coming very soon. I know, but you have to wait until the proper time! Trust me it will be worth it!

quote…

“The true measures of a church are not “how many” but “how loving”, not “how relevant” but “how real.”

-Robert Lewis

wanna see God?

then you must, excuse me, MUST!!!! read this!

Once you are done then go here! and here!

comments…

I want to first thank all of you from the bottom of my heart for subscribing, reading and stopping by my blog. I decided to blog not simply for me to voice my thoughts, but to create a dialogue, exchange ideas, get people to think about things, and most importantly to share the gospel with those who may have never heard it or who have issues with it.  I will blog more about that later! I simply want to reach out to you now an seriously invite you to leave your comments, thoughts, objections (i am not perfect nor do i believe i know it all) and well wishes here on the blog. At the end of every post is a link to leave a comment. Please do! I really want to know what you think, how you feel, and most importantly that you were here.

I have something come up that I think will be really cool, but If I don’t know you are here or have been here then how can I include you in the coolness…

Thanks!!!

I Promise…

I know for at least two weeks now I have been promising some very important and grand news. I have not forgotten or mislead any of you. We are in the process of some very exciting things that only God could be working in the Earth. Please stay tuned as we finalize the details!!!

In the mean time I need your help!

I have several people that I would truly be grateful for if you were to include them in your prayer time. As a church planter, pastor and man of God I have come to KNOW (in the intimate sense) the need for prayer, not just myself but from others as well. There are a few church planters whom I know who are requiring our prayer assistance.

First, Jason Salamun, who is planting Project Church in South Dakota. This guy in a very short amount of time has truly become my brother from another mother. I cant tell you how much his friendship means to me and how much more his success as a church planter and pastor mean to the Kingdom of God. They are a couple of days into their last 90 of preperation before their public launch. They are in need of finances, people, a location, people, did i mention finances and the continued Favor of God. Come on people go to God like you have never gone to him before on behalf of someone other than yourself! RAPID CITY IS NEVER EVER GOING TO BE THE SAME!!!!

Then there is Adam Walker. He is planting The Gathering in Decatur where it is Greater!!!! Adam and I met months ago and there was an instant connection. Esther and his wife, Jessica, have formed a bond and I believe in this guy! He and God are going to turn Decatur inside out for the Kingdom of God. They are in need of God meeting every financial need for the church as well as them personally, the Favor of God in their housing search, equipment ($10,000 worth) and people. Let’s get over it people it takes money to make these thing happen! Come on people go to God like you have never gone to him before on behalf of someone other than yourself!

There is also Joshua Roberts. He is planting Connect Rome in Rome, GA. He and I met online and have both been busy and unable to connect, be he is super creative, pretty funny, and truly loves God. The best part is they are going to be meeting in a bar in Rome. I am so stoked about what the vision God has given him. They are believing God for 75 to be at their next launch meeting and $7500.00 for the month of June. Now for us this and any of these request might be a tall order to fill, but for God… THIS IS NOTHING!!! Come on people go to God like you have never gone to him before on behalf of someone other than yourself!

Several other church planters to keep in prayers and thoughts, Shaun King who is planting Courageous Church also in Downtown Atlanta; My new friends West Ridge Church and their pastor Bryan Bloye; my dude, J.R. Lee in Acworth who is rippin it up and calling to check on my crazy behind from time to time, that mean at lot to me, you have no clue, my other brother from a different mother Olu Brown and Impact Church in the West End… these guys are doing it!!!

I want to thank ALL of you for taking out the time to one read my blog, i know you are tired of me begging you, and for taking something this is very dear to me and making it dear to you by praying for these guys and their families. A sign of maturity as a believer is simply when you are not the center of your prayer life. It is also a sign of the kind of love that God loves ALL of us with! Enough of me, GO PRAY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

bankrupt

transparency….

for the last four months our household has been in a whirlwind of frenzy. so many things going on, never enough time and hoping and wanting to keep it all together… you know, men, never let ‘em see you sweat. Right?

then one day it all comes crashing down… its as if the world decided to turn against you in a nano second. everything you knew to be reality, to be sure, to be certain is now dancing with confusion as you lean against the wall hoping no one sees you.

your wife tells you that you are feeding me physically and spiritually, but emotionally im STARVING!

huh? when? how? what did i miss? but but…

i ran away to seek God and get some understanding… i just got knocked out in the first round no need to bite my ear off cus im out on the canvas just hoping i can still walk. and as always He is there for me, only to tell me just how wrong i have been, and i hear the word that makes my heart ache, the word that is like driving nails in my own wrists and feet.. SELFISH.

you see somewhere along the way in this four month time span, in this amazing part of our journey together as a family as husband and wife as best friend and lovers, i began to lick my own wounds. i began to see me and lost sight of her wondering why i dont get and why i cant and who is going to do for me and damnit im right and your wrong and what about me what about me… in the corner… hoping no one is looking… licking my wounds….

But God….

Brothers, please please please understand this, I write these words to share so that you dont make the mistake I made. You see for the first time in my life after prayer and heaven sent wise counsel, I was able to admit that I had become SELFISH. LOVE, the LOVE that God is in, is not selfish, it does not consider itself, it denies self and consumes it self in the object of its affection. That is LOVE! That is GOD!

Someone once said this to me, and please comment and let me know what you think…

Love is when two people deny their needs, and focus on the needs of the other person, and meet those needs before the person ever knows there was a need. That is LOVE! Think about this, how much attention would you have to pay, how much time would you have to put in, and how much listening would you have to do to meet a need before the need is ever known by the person who posses it? My next question is simple, if you did the above, when if ever would you have time to have an affair? (To put out the rumor fires before they even begin, NO! I did not have an affair.)

I have since allowed god to show me the errors of my ways. He has shown me and my wife has directed me to serving her a buffet in all areas of her life. I pray never to have her become bankrupt in any area, EVER!

Thanks for listening!

about onehundredandtwenty…

WOW!!!! I give God ALL the credit for opening His Word and for allowing me to partake in Him!!!! On the phone today with a really good friend there was something God spoke to me during the conversation that I immediately had to some home and blog about. So here goes…

As a church planter I sometimes deflated by those who dont show up or keep their commitments to helping out as they said they would. I take it to heart when I look at those faithful in this journey wonder where “the help” is and where will it come from. I, and I am sure I am not the only who has felt this way, continue to motivate, cast vision, pray and even reach out to other church planters and pastors for encouragement during this journey. But today I heard something different from God. Now, granted I will always seek out “help” and encouragement from other church planters and pastors. God did command us to seek out wise counsel. But again today my focus has shifted.

During my conversation with my friend and brother Cedric God shared an amazing oversight with me. Many of us know about the Acts Church, how it was formed, when it was formed, and how after a brief sermon from Peter the church grew by the thousands. IN ONE DAY? NO, IN A MATTER OF HOURS!!!!! After the sermon there were some three thousand added to the church, followers of Christ who dedicated their lives and possessions (a whole ‘nother topic) to The Bride, the church. But what about the original 120 or so…?

How come they dont get the attention they deserve? How come we skip pass them an overlook them? Without them would there have been a 3000? Without them who would have been the example, who would have been the light, or salt to bring flavor to this already incredible recipe for church growth, life change, and success?

I seek repentance now, for overlooking those who have been here from the beginning. I beg their forgiveness for not seeing them and looking past them to more, more and morE. A good friend reminded me recently that WE MUST BE good stewards of the little in order to attain much. But this blog is not solely about that.

Here are the questions I want to raise… What was it about that original 120 or so that were able to reproduce in such an awesome way? What was it about them that God was able to manifest in self in such a way? Why on earth has this type of life change not happen more regularly in and through the church?

There were no fliers, no you tube, no internet, fancy websites, or social networking sites. There was no mailer or teaser or even communication cards. (Please do not take this statement the wrong way, I believe these things are vital today because of how we communicate!) There were merely 120 or so people in a room, The Upper Room, PRAYING. But they were not just praying, the Amplified version here states that they were in FULL AGREEMENT, devoting themselves to prayer.

WOW!!! That’s it? That is the difference between us and them? When was the last time we were consistently in”full agreement” devoted to steadfast prayer? I mean other than praying for the money for the new building or for the mission trip or after 9/11. Can we still do something like this?

So you want change in your life? You a church planter wanting to grow? You want your daughter to come home and leave that loser? You want the drugs out of your hood/community? You want something different to take place in your life? You want a husband, a wife, children? You want to be able to afford life in these crazy economically challenging days?

COME IN FULL AGREEMENT WITH SOMEONE ANYONE AND DEVOTE YOURSELVES TO STEADFAST PRAYER!!!

I look at these 120 or so and think about my people. I am fully persuaded that whether it is 2, 2o or a 120 that if WE ARE IN FULL AGREEMENT, ON ONE ACCORD, ON THE VERY SAME PAGE SAME PARAGRAPH AND SAME SENTENCE THAT WE TOO CAN ACHIEVE THE LIKES OF THIS THE CHURCH OF ACTS.

How else can we truly advance the Kingdom? It is God who gives increase, but WE MUST DO OUR PART!!!

SHALL WE PRAY?

training wheels and ipods…

I guess I truly am missing my boys as this will the the second blog about them in as many days.

On sunday I got two phone calls, one from Texas and one from Florida. My chest was sticking out pretty far as my boys wished me a Happy Father’s day. Tyler, my oldest, asked if I had gotten my iphone, which he has been praying for me to get for a while now. I told him daddy was waiting on the new one. Then like any kid wanted to know if we had gotten his ipod. You see before he left I made a deal with him. If he finished the school year with no drama, behaved in Florida over the summer and saved half the money for the ipod, we would match it. So needless to say he is uber eager to come home and buy his ipod. He might love music more than me and that is saying something.

Late Sunday night i got a second call from Texas. Jah, my youngest was so excited. He barked through the phone on how he rode his bike without training wheels. “Pappa, took the wheels off and I rode by myself. I only fell twice and got back on and rode to Mr. Jackson’s house.” Wow.

I cannot believe how fast they are growing up. It only seems like yesterday they needed me for everything, now they are wanting things I would have never asked for at 8 and riding bikes with no need of assistance. I love IT!!!! As much as I might want to be needed to watch them GROW is the most amazing thing in my life, besides watching the seed in my wife’s womb grow (more to come about that later…)!

As a father this is a time to reflect, ponder and prepare for them for the rest of their lives. God, our Father has the same prescription for us as well. He too is proud of us and watching us grow. Giving us room to fall when the training wheels are removed, there to pick us up and dust us off only to say get back on and try again. He too is eager to meet us where we are, remembering our hearts desires and giving us direction.

I love being a father, a husband and chosen of God to proclaim HIS RICH GOSPEL!!!

major announcements…

Please stay tuned and keep coming back regularly as i hope to be making some very important and major announcements next week….

God has been so good to my family and I, His Favor has been endless, and He is writing the story of my life! (Thanks Olu)

Thank you all for being a part of this journey with us… it means the world to me!!!